In the years immediately following the end of the Civil War, two brothers - both Union veterans - returned home to Lawrence County, Ohio and married.
Neither brother traveled outside the county to marry. In fact, neither brother searched for their significant other outside a single family.
Albert Benedick, my third great-grandfather, and his older brother George Washington Benedick, married two sisters: Anna Dornon, my third great-grandmother, and her younger sister Abigail Dornon.
|Albert Benedick and Anna Dornon - October 1866 marriage, Lawrence Co., Ohio|
|George W. Benedick and Abigail Dornon - August 1869 marriage, Lawrence Co., Ohio|
It shouldn't come as a surprise that a man would marry someone near home in the 19th century. After all, as Richard Conniff noted in his article Go Ahead, Kiss Your Cousin, "Until the past century, families tended to remain in the same area for generations, and men typically went courting no more than about five miles from home—the distance they could walk out and back on their day off from work."
A Family Tradition
In the early 20th century, two Benedick sisters carried on their grandfather's tradition and married two brothers from a single family.
On August 18, 1929, Della Benedick married Irwin Roy Lumpkins at the courthouse in Stockton, Rooks County, Kansas. The local paper - the Plainville Times - reported that, "Miss Benedick wore a blue silk and lace gown...and carried a bouquet of pink roses."
Della's younger sister, Nevella Benedick, married Roy's younger brother, Marion Lumpkins, on Valentine's Day 1934. The Plainville Times reported that my great-grandparents "were married by Probate Judge Case at Stockton" in the same county courthouse as their siblings.
|Della (left) and Nevella Benedick (right) pictured with their parents center and|
husbands Roy Lumpkins (left) and Marion Lumpkins (right) superimposed on
Rooks County, Kansas Courthouse where they all married.
Perhaps because of the proliferation of the automobile and increased mobility, my family has not seen another marriage between sets of siblings of two families.
What did your family's small town marriages look like? Any sets of siblings tie the knot?