With the first selfie being snapped (or slowly exposed) in 1839 followed by the technical evolution and widespread ability to capture the actual human form, I must have a handful of distant ancestors whose image was captured on film, paper, metal or glass.
My Family History Photo Album
Currently, the oldest portrait of a known director ancestor in my collection is of my third great-grandfather Albert Benedick. The picture was taken at the time of his enlistment in the Union Army in February 1865 - just before the War's end - and shows him decked out in his ill-fitting uniform. He was just 15 years old (unless Uncle Sam's asking, then he was 18!).
My oldest ancestor (that is to say, born the longest ago) to be photographed was my fifth great-grandmother Catherine (Shaull or Schall) Rosenberger who was born September 8, 1792 (according to her headstone). She and her husband, John Anthony Rosenberger (born in 1794), sat for a portrait in the 1870s.
From the family history, Erasmus Rosenberger and his families in Germany and America, there's the following note about the photograph:
"It is natural to be curious about the physical appearance of an ancestor when a photograph is lacking; therefore, the sentence from a letter by Susan to her brother John [Anthony] is particularly interesting. 'Nothing would give me more pleasure than to receive your picture as you are the living counterpart of father and we have no likeness of him.' The photo of John Anthony and his wife Catherine may have been taken to comply with Susan's request. At least it seems reasonable to conjecture that John's and Catherine's ages when the photo was taken fit the time period between 1870, when the letter was written, and 1876, when they died."
Did other family sit for portraits? Are photographs out there waiting to be found?
Gallery of Portraits: the Suspects
In 2013, my assembled wish list of ancestral grandparents included 19 individuals who lived well into the age of photography, but whose faces I had never seen. Surely they had stepped into a photographer's studio at some point, right?
And it wasn't totally unreasonable to expect that some of those photos survived and were out there - perhaps in distant cousins' albums - waiting to be discovered, right?
I'll concede that some of them never sat for a portrait. Perhaps the newfangled technology didn't appeal to them or was outside their budget. Maybe it wasn't accessible to them since some of these ancestors passed away in the 19th century before the advent of portable personal cameras.
However, not all of my unseen ancestors were antiques.
For example, my third great-grandfather Johnson Williams lived until August 29, 1943 when he passed away at the age of 92. Johnson lived until nearly the midpoint of the 20th century. His wife, Caroline (Reed) Johnson, was pretty close, too, living until 1930. These two had to be photographed at some point. Where is that picture? I'll try anything to find it! (Remember that one time I placed an ad in the local paper seeking descendants with pictures and got second billing to a gun show?)
Known Missing Portraiture
Several of my 19 wishlist ancestors are known to have sat for photographs. I have a letter from a now-deceased cousin who wrote of having seen portraits of two of my fourth-great grandmothers: Mary Ann (Miser) Benedick (died 1901) and Sophronia (Rogers) Dornon (died 1872). But where are those pictures? Who inherited them?
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| Cousin Vieva (Benedick) Kraybill's 1988 letter to an aunt affirming the existence of ancestor photos. |
Another grandmother (this one a fifth-great) wasn't even on my September 2013 list. It wasn't until the following year that a textile researcher contacted me about Jane (Cox) Hadley asking if I had inherited any of her weaving patterns or drafts.
I had no idea she was an acclaimed weaver and was intrigued, but you can imagine how my ears really perked up when I read a 1979 Interweave article about her work that included a quote from her great-granddaughter, who remembered, "a picture of her as a plain, firm looking woman dressed entirely in black."
Jane died in 1880, but before she did she managed to make a Kodak moment. Now where's it stashed?
Evolving Ancestry
The list of sought-after ancestors has changed during the nearly four years since I wrote that blog. A previously unknown Non-Paternal Event (or Not-The-Parent-Expected), introduced an entirely new cast of patrilineal characters into the play of me and removed others.
Within the past couple years, my outreach to my new Kirk cousins helped me procure photos of my paternal great-grandfather and his parents. It was a happy result on the heels of an unexpected surprise.
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| William and Nancy (Weeks) Kirk at left and their son Samuel Kirk (right). |
Successes Anticipated and Otherwise
There have been other successes, too. Some were surprises like my fourth great-grandmother Nancy Mariah (Barron) Winkler. When I made my initial list of photographed ancestors, she wasn't even in my tree. I'm glad she was added because I subsequently connected with a distant cousin who shared the new-to-me photo.
Lots of detective work, boundless optimism, persistent outreach, wonderful cousin connections, and, yes, a whole lot of luck, culminated in me finally locking eyes with six direct ancestors who were on that original list. These are folks whose DNA makes me me, and who, without any one of them, I wouldn't exist (now that would be an existential crisis!).
Have You Seen Us?
There is, of course, more work to be done. My list is updated to include ancestors who lived deeper into the 19th century (currently using 1880 as my starting point). Sure, it's ambitious, but I don't want to risk overlooking a treasured heirloom.
So, [in your best Robert Stack voice] if you have information on the whereabouts of photographs of the following individuals, please contact the proper authorities (me) at FamilySleuther@gmail.com.
- Darwin B. Andrus, died 1882 in Cass County, Nebraska
- Nancy C. (Rosenberger) Bair Clyde, died 1899 in Ladora, Iowa
- Mary Ann (Miser) Benedick, died 1901 in Plainville, Kansas
- Elizabeth (Ragan) Brickey, died 1882 in Marion County, Illinois
- Tabitha (Chandler) Caswell, died 1882 in Quebec, Canada
- Angela Maria (Spatuzi) De Melio, died 1885 in Potenza, Italy
- Sophronia (Rogers) Dornon, died 1872 in Wyandotte, Kansas
- John Flynn, died 1881 in Des Moines, Iowa
- Margaret (Fahey) Flynn, died before 1881 in Des Moines, Iowa
- Adeline Parmelia (Judd) Gervais/Jarvis, died 1899 in Quebec, Canada
- George Felix Gervais/Jarvis, died after 1901 unknown
- Jane (Cox) Hadley, died 1880 in Ackworth, Iowa
- John J. Herriman, died 1890 in Jackson Creek, Arkansas
- John Howerton, died 1883 in Elliott County, Kentucky
- Francis Johnson, died 1897 in Cedar County, Missouri
- Temperance (Hall) Johnson, died 1895 in Cedar County, Missouri
- Daniel Jucket, died 1885 in Enfield, Massachusetts
- Hester (Griffith) Kirk, died 1889 in Grimes, Iowa
- James Kirk, died 1917 in Des Moines, Iowa
- Jane (Delzell) Kirk, died 1886 in Iowa
- Andrew Lamb, died 1911 in Brighton, Vermont
- Susan Mary (Caswell) Lamb, died 1915 in Island Pond, Vermont
- Maria Giuseppa (De Melio) La Rocca, died 1885 in Potenza, Italy
- Pancrazio La Rocca, died 1887 in Potenza, Italy
- Phoebe (Howerton) Lumpkins, died 1887 in Rossville, Kansas
- Elizabeth (Powell) Reeves, died 1884 in Madison County, Arkansas
- Abigail (Gould) Rogers, died 1882 in Davis County, Iowa
- Angela Raffaela Vincenza (Raimondi) Ruoti, died 1890 in Denver, Colorado
- Vincenzo Ruoti, died 1883 in Potenza, Italy
- Thomas K. Stevens, died 1886 in Idaho Springs, Colorado
- John Wesley Upton, died 1899 in Greenland, Arkansas
- Martha (Bowen) Upton, died 1903 in Fayetteville, Arkansas
- William B. Upton, died 1904 in Muskogee, Oklahoma
- Mary Jane (Calfee) Wagnon, died 1914 in Washington County, Arkansas
- Matilda (Johnson) Weeks, died 1930 in Los Angeles, California
- Samuel Weeks, died 1904 in Colorado
- Caroline (Reed) Williams, died 1930 in Rolla, Missouri
- Isaac Williams, died 1880-1900 in Phelps County, Missouri
- Johnson Williams, died 1943 in Rolla, Missouri
- James Henry Winkler, died unknown
- Samantha Pauline (Brickey) Winkler Lee, died 1899 in Barry County, Missouri
- Samuel Winkler, died after 1900 location unknown
















